SORRY

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a pretty tight one but I am sooo happy Friday is here again.

 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is about the word SORRY which is something people find so difficult to say.                                                                                                                                      And I think it is the word that can help in almost all situation, it can even melt a strong heart, even GOD accept sorry but it has to come from the heart remember because some people say sorry just because they are asked to do that, and when they live there they will do whatever they did before again.                                                                                              SORRY is also the word that helps in relationships, friendship, marriages etc, because no one is perfect.                                                                                                                                When we see little children fighting, and they feel sorry for their actions they simple go to the person and say sorry and give a kiss or a hug which comes from the heart, but if they feel they did nothing wrong they will also look for a place to find your friendship back but let you understand that you offended them first. I must still ask this question, because I need us to answer.

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                                      WHY IS SORRY DIFFICULT FOR PEOPLE TO SAY?

   

MANNER OF APPROACH

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a tiring one but I am still happy Friday is here again.

 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is about MANNER OF APPROACH which some people don't have. People who talk anyhow to whoever they come across bigger or smaller than them.              A lot of people do these without even knowing because they are already use to talking to people anyhow and this way of talking has brought hot slap to their faces.                            You see even a small child of 14/15 years talking to an elder old enough to be his/her grandfather anyhow and the parents will say we are in a civilized world (nonsense!!!!!). When you even try to correct these people they will ask you if you are their father or mother, they will even eye you and live (JESUS IS LORD).                                                                                Some parents are regretting how they brought up their children today because when they take them to public all the child do is disgrace them with the way they talk; anyways they say lion begat lion this one is mannerless begat mannerless so they Shula accept what they have brought up.                                                                                                                                     They say bad words brings anger to the heart, when they talk anyhow and somebody react they will say that person is wicked meanwhile they don't know is how and what they said even though they don't see what they say wrong.                                                                                                                                   This mannerless person might need help from somebody they have talked to mannerlessly in the past and that subject is a strong hearted person will that person help them? "NO!!".                                        I think we should start helping these people by telling them and that brings me to this weeks question.

                             HOW CAN WE HELP THIS PEOPLE IN THEIR WAY OF TALKING?

STOP DEPENDING ON PEOPLE OR SOMEONE.

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a tiring one but I am still happy Friday is here again.

 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is STOP DEPENDING ON PEOPLE OR SOMEONE.                            A lot of people just love to depend on others, I don't know if they are not humans just like the people helping them are (nor be one head wey that person get dey get).                             Many people just love waiting for people before doing things, they will say I am not able to do it alone (I nor sabi, make he come help me first), and of course you give those people the opportunity to ride on you ("without me he nor fit do am", una be MUMU?).                        These things are most common with women, they will say they don't have the power and that it is a man's job (storyyyy).                                                                                                     That is why whenever you ask these people depended on they will say "sorry I don't have time yet" meanwhile they are just so free, they only want you to suffer before getting their  help.                                                                                                                                              These same people are the once  that will be bragging in public "Without me that fool won't be were he/ she is today" they will even cause you all because they are helping you.(watinnnnn?).                                                                                                                                    But you guys should know not everyone that helps somebody do this, there are also good people that just love helping people and they are the opposite of all what I have mentioned that is because they believe in the world "givers never lack", and I pray the Lord Almighty should bless them 100 times what they have done for others.

That is where I will stop at today. I hope you guys are enjoying these journey with me, because I get to learn a lot and get inspired whenever I write.                                               Don't forget to follow me on my Instagram page @ patypaty97, snapchat @patiencejoe and you can also ask me a friend request on my Facebook page @ patience eziengbe izevbizua. 

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                                       WHEN WILL YOU STOP DEPENDING ON PEOPLE?

     

FAMILY

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a fabulous one and i'm so excited because it's Friday again.
 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is 'Family' which is a single word, with many different meanings. People have many ways of defining a family and what being a part of a family means to them. Families differ in terms of economic, cultural, social, and many other facets, but what every family has in common is that the people who call it a family are making clear that those people are important in some way to the person calling them his family.family is a little society, a tight bond between some set of people and this bond can't be broken by anything or anyone at all.                                                                           Family life today is under siege. Families are beset by divorce, a crisis in roles, absenteeism of parents, a breakdown of authority, preoccupation with things, inadequate time together, financial pressures, and a host of other problems. The Bible teaches that the institution of family is of divine origin and purpose. The Bible also provides guidelines for good relations within the family. A commitment to the Bible’s teachings and principles provides today’s best hope for the recovery of family life.                                                                                                                FAMILY IS FOR EVERYONE 👨👩👧👦

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                                          WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY MEAN TO YOU?

SWEET MAMA

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a fabulous one and i'm so excited because it's Friday again.
 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is about Mothers which are women who inhabit or perform the role of bearing child(ren) and creating a strong bond between themselves and their children.                Children love mothers more than you can even imagine, even musicians dedicate songs to mother (me I never see they sing for papa). Mothers can do things unimaginable just to make her child(ren) happy not minding the consequences the will face latter.                                                                            They understand their children pretty well, they can say when their children are happy or sad.               No child will say he/she hates their mother except they have a very good explanation but trust me that love is always there (pikin must still love him mama).                                                                               A mother can accept the errors of the child because she believes the child will change some day even when people are criticizing the child she is ready to take the blame on herself. The child can get he/her selves into a mess and the  mother will know the child is wrong but still defend he/she then later spank her when they get home.                                                                                                                 LOVE IS MOTHER, MOTHERS IS LOVE.    

                                       

                                  CAN ANYBODY BE LIKE OUR SWEET MAMA?

            

ALTRUISM

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a fabulous one and i'm so excited because it's Friday again.
 So let's go down to it.

 My discussion this week is about Altruism which I define unselfish concern for other people. It involves doing things simply out of a desire to help, not because you feel obligated to out of duty, loyalty, or religious reasons.                      Everyday life is filled with small acts of altruism, from the guy at the grocery store who kindly holds the door open as you rush in from the parking lot to the woman who gives twenty dollars to a homeless man.                                                                                                                                                News stories often focus on grander cases of altruism, such as a man who dives into an icy river to rescue a drowning stranger to a generous donor who gives thousands of dollars to a local charity.   While we may be all too familiar with altruism, social psychologists are interested in understanding why it occurs.                                                                                                                                      Altruism is one aspect of what social psychologists refer to as Prosocial behavior which refers to any action that benefits other people, no matter what the motive or how the giver benefits from the action. Remember, however, that pure altruism involves true selflessness. While all altruistic acts are prosocial, not all prosocial behaviors are completely altruistic. For example, we might help others for a variety of reasons such as guilt, obligation, duty, or even for rewards.

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                                               What inspires these acts of kindness? 

      

TROUBLE (let sleeping dogs lie).

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a cool and i'm happy because it's Friday again. But I want to apologize for not writing last week's blog. My people abeg make una nor vex. Na new year day and I needed to jolly jolly with my family, I am using this medium to wish all my lovelies a HAPPY NEW YEAR.
So let's go down to it.   

My discussion this week is about living past TROUBLES in the past ("as People will say: let sleeping dogs lie").
 sleeping dogs lie is what I explain to leave things as they are; especially, to avoid restarting  or rekindly an old argument; to leave disagreement  in the past.                                      Eventually, they decided it would be best to let sleeping dogs lie and not discuss the matter any further but they argument will still be in their minds. You will see them not talking to the person anymore because they have not said all what they have been bearing in mind and this will cause more "catacata".

While others prefere to say their minds and be free.

That is why I began to ask myself the question of this week.

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                                     IS IT BETTER TO LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE?

                                                                 

                                                 

 

  

CHRISTMAS

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was a happy one because it's Christmas week,i am sooooo excited because it FRIDAY!!! (hope all of una don chop Xmas rice and chicken?).

 My discussion this week is about is about how we use to spend Christmas in Naija.                                  I can remember those days in Nigeria little children would wear new clothes and shoes visit uncle and aunties to eat and drink, after this they would tell the kids to start dancing, after that when the children are about to live uncles and aunties go come dash them money ( maybe that day they visited up to 3 families that means the might make up to 1000 Naira and trust me that one na big money for children).

I can remember my mum always keep the best dresses for me and my sisters plus the koko shoe that we will combine with it.

Early in the morning by 5:00 a.m. my mum and elder sister are already up to prepare jollof rice ( my mum makes the best jollof ever ) then when me and my junior sister wake up, first take our bath then dress fine fine before we come and eat enough rice ( THAT WAS REAL FUN ).

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HOW DID YOU SPEND YOUR XMAS?

      

         

SELF RESPECT

Hello fans and readers. How was your week? Mine was stressful because i had alot to do this week like tests and it's my church end of year prayer week (i prayed for all my readers), but i am still excited because it FRIDAY and we are in the CHRISTMAS SEASON yeayyyy ( MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL) !!!                                                   

  so let's go down to it...                                                                                                      My discussion this week is about SELF RESPECT (make una dey respect una selves).                                                                                                                                  To my understanding it means being proud of who you are, even with the mistakes you made in the past, It means looking yourself in the mirror and thinking "This guy/babe has his/her shit straight.".                                                                                     While you reflect on your past life, you should smile and think "man/girl I'm awesome.".                                                                                                                             It means not using alcohol, drugs or violence to solve problems. To overcome and oppress those who bring you down. Whatever hurts you only makes you stronger. It's to think that you are a good person, but not to the point of arrogance. You don't have to be the smartest kid in your class, you don't have to make a million dollars a year and you don't have to be popular to have self respect.While i was putting this down ( i nor know where i see all this explanations so don't ask me). Or when we go to public evn if we are not wearing the best clothes we just have to make it look like the best there ( because na how you see yourself na MR B go see you).i asked my self the question of this week.

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HOW MANY OF US HAS GOT THIS SELF RESPECT? IS IT EASY TO RESPECT YOURSELF?